A few weeks ago we were driving down the road we saw a car (At least I think it had been a car) by the side of the road that was obviously totaled. My youngest looked at the car and offered, "Maybe Grandma can fix that." One of his siblings immediately responded by saying, "Um, NO. Even Grandma can't SEW cars!!!"
Right. We were looking at something that would make a skilled body shop mechanic cringe, much less Grandma equipped with her ever-handy sewing machine. I wonder if when Jesus talked about "the faith of a child" if He was thinking of the faith of a 3 year old child. Boy howdy, that kid has faith! (Smashed up car? No problem! My grandma has a sewing machine...)
It is very endearing when a child with pleading eyes and complete faith comes and offers up something precious, yet broken and says, "Can you fix this?" Has this ever happened to you? An irresistible request to work at a nearly impossible task... and for the sheer love of the child, you agree to try to find a way... (even if it means a late-night search on Amazon or ebay in hopes of finding a suitable replacement that is almost as good as mending?)
When I was growing up, my dad had a reputation for being a "good fixer." (He actually still does, but he may or may not actually want that information in print, so don't tell anybody.) When we were younger we would take him our broken toys, but as we got older it was our computers and our college student vehicles making funny noises. My dad has the ability to keep half dead vehicles alive for a really long time. He joked that it was his love language. Even though he joked about it, I realized later it did make me feel loved. Driving a car that was well-cared for made me feel well cared for.
I look at my kiddos and the little mended places of their favorite clothing items and it makes me smile. Those little places of mending represent the fact that someone stepped in and cared for the things that were special to them.
I have another Father who is a really good fixer. You can't always see it, but there are little mended places in my heart that remind me of His touch. Some people would call them scars, and they would be right, but the truth is that scars are places of healing. Someone who loves me took the time to sit down and mend something that was broken, and now when I look at these mended places, it reminds me that I'm loved. And when I take time to remember all that He has done, I am all the more eager to gather up my emotional mending pile and offer it to Him. He's a really good fixer.
Such a good story/truth teller. Love it.
ReplyDeleteSuch a beautiful analogy. Hugs to you!
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